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	<title>Have The Relationship You WANT</title>
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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 19:50:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Romance Yourself And Bring Him IN</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/romance-yourself-and-bring-him-in/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/romance-yourself-and-bring-him-in/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 19:50:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[create romance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[declutter]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[home organizing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[make him romantic]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romantic gifts]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romantic man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-love]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Romance is a skill and a talent - and it requires effort - so Romance is a &#8220;boy&#8221; thing.  That&#8217;s why it feels so awful to us when it&#8217;s not coming at us, and we&#8217;re left to try to think of how to do romance ourselves.
So - try this - write out and imagine what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Thank Yourself In Advance</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/thank-yourself-in-advance/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/thank-yourself-in-advance/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 19:25:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[law of attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-erespect]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[spirituality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[thanksgiving]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[
Happy Thanksgiving!
***If you get my free eLetters, you&#8217;ve already received this&#8230;and I&#8217;d like you to print it out from here (if you haven&#8217;t already) and put it up where you can see it and DO it, and make it one of your Thanksgiving presents for yourself&#8230;)
Ever wondered if things could really turn around &#8220;on-a-dime&#8221; for [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Joy And Gratitude</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/joy-and-gratitude/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/joy-and-gratitude/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 00:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be happy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[gratidue]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[joy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[thanksgiving]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=243</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When my daughter was small, Thanksgiving at school was about the Native American experience, about the Pilgrims, and about all the conflicting stories of that time. With just a tiny bit of research, I&#8217;ve found Thanksgiving to be a very, very old tradition, a celebration of the Harvest, and much more applicable to what we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why A Man Does What He Does</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/why-a-man-does-what-he-does/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/why-a-man-does-what-he-does/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 17:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[long-distance relatoinship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[why did he leave]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=242</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is in answer to a comment by sifsgoldwig - (here&#8217;s the comment-&#62;) after a break up, and I thought my comment might help you, too:
I thank you, sifsgoldwig, for your heartfelt story and the great questions it brings up.  I can&#8217;t help you specifically to understand this situation - because spending ANY time, energy [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Art Of Attracting Him</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/art-of-attracting-him/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/art-of-attracting-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 00:01:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[art therapy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=238</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So - what possible link can there be between drawing and attracting men?
Lots of links, actually, and I&#8217;m working with them myself.  I&#8217;m taking an art class once a week - I&#8217;ve always loved drawing and painting - but never had any real &#8220;technique&#8221; so I&#8217;d get frustrated with what I was doing and then [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If He&#8217;s Going From Passionate To Friendly</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/if-hes-going-from-passionate-to-friendly/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/if-hes-going-from-passionate-to-friendly/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 22:45:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engaged]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engagement]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[friends to lovers]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[friendship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[he wants to be friends]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lover]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lovers to friends]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[realtionship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=231</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Thank you for your brilliant comments and stories and testimonials, and I realize the only way I can answer you in a meaningful way is here in actual posts (please forgive me in advance for replying to some, and not all of your comments - it would be overwhelming for me to even try, so [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Believe You&#8217;re ENOUGH For Him</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/how-to-believe-youre-enough-for-him/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/how-to-believe-youre-enough-for-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 22:13:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Sex &amp; Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Porn And Your Man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pornography and relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=233</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m not pretty enough. I&#8217;m not sexy enough. I&#8217;m not smart enough. I&#8217;m not (fill in the blank) enough. I&#8217;m not enough. Sound familiar?
You may have read some of Tinque&#8217;s comments here, and some of her articles that I&#8217;ve posted.  Her real name is Dominique, and she&#8217;s a former client of mine who&#8217;s just leapt [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Managing The Ups And Downs Of Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/managing-the-ups-and-downs/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/managing-the-ups-and-downs/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract my man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be happy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dreams come true]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[law of attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[manifesting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[true love]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=228</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Today&#8230;I just wanted to be MOTIVATIONAL!
There are going to be ups and downs, bouncing around, feelings going from good to bad to good again, and things will happen you don&#8217;t expect.
AND you will continually be moving forward ANYWAY!
This is the whole thing I want you to know, even if it feels weird - if you&#8217;re [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Holiday Man-Catching Secrets</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/holiday-man-catching-secrets/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/holiday-man-catching-secrets/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 17:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[holiday blues]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love for holidays]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=229</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[My friend Keri Newell (you may have heard the interview she did with me in my Interview Series, and she&#8217;ll be appearing and doing live demonstrations on my new program about Circular Dating) is doing a one-time free teleclass tomorrow evening (Wednesday) at 5pm Pacific Time, 8pm Eastern (and wherever you may be in-between), called [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Say To Him When You&#8217;re Dating Other Men</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-to-say-to-him-when-youre-dating-other-men/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-to-say-to-him-when-youre-dating-other-men/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 03:03:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[exclusive dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[first date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex on dates]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=180</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So - what do you say to him - especially if he says he &#8220;doesn&#8217;t want to date a woman who&#8217;s dating multiple men?&#8221;
Here&#8217;s a letter from Mary, who&#8217;s trying to get away from a &#8220;friends with benefits&#8221; situation:
&#8220;Rori, I have been reading your letters over the past few weeks and they have really helped [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Tool Of The Week - Paint Yourself In Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/relationship-tool-of-the-week-paint-yourself-in-love/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/relationship-tool-of-the-week-paint-yourself-in-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 21:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[advice for love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[devoted to me]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[devotion]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[man's devotion]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship. love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sesaulity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=227</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So many of you have told me that this Tool - Paint Yourself - has created a breakthrough for you. And so I wanted to reprint it here in case you&#8217;re new to me and aren&#8217;t getting my eLetters yet (be sure to sign up to get them, they&#8217;re free, and once they&#8217;ve gone out [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What Does Circular Dating Do For You?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-does-circular-dating-do-for-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-does-circular-dating-do-for-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2008 20:40:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date more than one man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating rotation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[find man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[meet man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[polyamorous]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[polyamory]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=226</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a comment-question from TW, and to show you how fast and amazingly you can catch on to all this and change your life, see how brilliantly here Alias Girl, Daria and JP answered! (You can see all the comments here-&#62;)
The question - from TW: &#8220;What exactly is circular dating and what purpose does it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Turning Around Disappointment</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/turning-around-disappointment/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/turning-around-disappointment/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 21:06:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[disappointment in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self blame]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[spiritual growth]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=222</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Ever stood in your living room, in your kitchen, looked at your man, or your empty &#8220;dance card&#8221; of fun things you&#8217;d like to do and wish you&#8217;d done, felt the disappointment well up in you and the words come into your brain &#8220;How&#8217;d I get here?&#8221;
I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s one of us that hasn&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Is My Ex Showing Up Everywhere?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/why-is-my-ex-showing-up-everywhere/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/why-is-my-ex-showing-up-everywhere/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2008 21:05:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup &amp; Divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break up with boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ex-boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get away from boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[miss my ex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[old boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[painful breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[want ex back]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=221</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Andrea is suffering with the fact that her ex seems to be showing up everywhere in her life - just as she&#8217;s trying to make huge changes&#8230; (here&#8217;s the whole series of comments, back and forth, from Andrea and JP)-&#62;
&#8220;Rori, I feel like there is a force trying to connect us. For example, I am [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Let Me Know What You Need For My Next Program On Circular Dating</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/new-circular-dating-program/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/new-circular-dating-program/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Nov 2008 02:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[exclusive relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[improve marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=217</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[My next program will be about Circular Dating - What it is, Why it works no matter what situation you&#8217;re in (even if you&#8217;re married, with some adjustments), and exactly How to do it in all kinds of situations.
Would you let me know what you&#8217;d like me cover?  I&#8217;m going to use many scenarios and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Embrace Your Change</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/embrace-your-change/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/embrace-your-change/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 20:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Barack]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Barack Obama]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[election]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[elections]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[government]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Michelle Obama]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Nov 4]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Obama]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[patriotism]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[president]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=219</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Yaaay!  The election&#8217;s over, and it feels like things are moving in an orderly, methodical, well-thought out and yet passionate way.
However you voted, I hope you will now gather the entire world together in your mind and heart as a peaceful world - accepting and loving all the pieces of it that are painful and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Chemistry - True Or False?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/relationship-chemistry/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/relationship-chemistry/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 02:06:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[chemistry in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love chemistry]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship chemistry]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=215</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I posted some of my thoughts about &#8220;Chemistry&#8221; in relationships at www.Alphawomen.com, and got a huge response.  Freda Mooncotch, the owner of Alphawomen, asked me this:
&#8220;Rori,  Do you think you can create chemistry between two  people who don&#8217;t have it?
I was watching Sex and the City where Carrie meets Aiden and although there  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sex And Obsession - Bethany Session 4</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/sex-and-obsession/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/sex-and-obsession/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 16:58:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bethany's Story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mental health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[obsession]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[personal growth]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=135</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sex is a delicate negotiation - even when you&#8217;re long married.
How to get it started, how to make sure it&#8217;s good, how to end it and move on to the next moment of being in a relationship.
Bethany is working her way through all that - getting to orgasm in an organic, easy, fulfilling and self-responsible [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are You Punishing Yourself Because You Want To Punish HIM?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/are-you-punishing-yourself/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/are-you-punishing-yourself/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 03:47:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[angry marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad husband]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional vilence]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship problem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve marriage problems]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=212</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Reshi asked a great question - after doing some amazing work to get to the bottom of her feelings - the feelings and thoughts she found there were frightening (to read Reshi&#8217;s entire comment, go here-&#62;)
Here&#8217;s a bit of her comment:
&#8220;So I did a little Riff on that and came out with about the scariest [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Forget The 4 Man Dating Plan - Try The 10 Man Dating Plan</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/10-man-dating-plan/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/10-man-dating-plan/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 00:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[4 man plan]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating rotation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=198</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
Every time I sit to write about Circular Dating, I feel as if it&#8217;s so obvious.  So natural, so logical.  Exactly the way we women should always be thinking in terms of men, and dating&#8230;and then I look at my emails and the comments to this blog, and all the articles I read out there [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Vote Today For Yourself</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/vote-today/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/vote-today/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 12:17:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Biden]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[election]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[McCain]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Obama]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Palin]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[president]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[vice-president]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[vote]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[votes]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[voting]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=209</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Be in your Masculine Energy today - to get yourself to the polls to vote, and to make sure you have a book with you, your journal and a pen, so you can be a girl and have something fun to do while you&#8217;re waiting in line!
Sink into your Rori Raye work - feel what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Recover Your Joy</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/recover-your-joy/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/recover-your-joy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 02:44:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[addiction to man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[broken heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love addiction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[married man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[obsession]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=203</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
I got a comment from Clara a few days ago, and I wanted to do more for her -  Clara is seriously obsessed and addicted to a man who is no good for her, who&#8217;s been in and out of her life for years and years, and even though she&#8217;s only 42 and married, she [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Make Him Propose At Last</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-make-him-propose-at-last/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-make-him-propose-at-last/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2008 23:47:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be more attractive]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engagement]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage proposal]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[proposal]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[propose]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[red dress]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[wedding]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=201</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I found this while surfing around, it&#8217;s by Pamela Tames, at www.SeasonedSex.com, and I thought it was great - she titled it &#8220;How To Make Him Propose. At Last&#8221;:
&#8220;You’re a woman. You’ve probably read, what, 8,702 relationship books about how to make men crazy with lust and glue them to you until death do you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Hanging On Only Because Of Your Kids?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/relationship-hanging-on-only-because-of-your-kids/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/relationship-hanging-on-only-because-of-your-kids/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2008 22:01:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[hanging on to marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[kids in marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mariage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[motherhhod]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[saving marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop divorce]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=186</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
Here&#8217;s a letter from Lena, who&#8217;s struggling with confusion and feeling trapped:
&#8220;Rori, I feel my relationship is hanging on only because of my kids. My partner says he loves me but His actions aren&#8217;t showing that. To get to the point I am extremely insecure - I compare myself to every woman we see/come into [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sex, Feeling And Attraction - What To Say - Bethany #3</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/sex-and-feeling-what-to-say/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/sex-and-feeling-what-to-say/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 21:37:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bethany's Story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[doormat]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional boundaries]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[goddess]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=134</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s the next step in Bethany&#8217;s work - completely overhauling and reversing her opinion of herself, taking herself out of &#8220;doormat&#8221; mode and putting herself into &#8220;goddess&#8221; mode, having Boundaries and yet being soft, open, warm and inviting, advocating for herself and her ENTIRE life - not just the part of it she shares with [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/sex-and-feeling-what-to-say/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
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		<title>How Dating And Flirting - Even If You&#8217;re IN A Relationship - Help You Stop Hurting</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/dating-stops-relationship-hurt/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/dating-stops-relationship-hurt/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 21:14:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[addicted to him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[addiction to love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[addiction to man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[co-dependency]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[codependency]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[codependent]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cure love addiction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love addict]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love addiction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[man addiction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=199</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Allana Pratt, the Sexy Mom Expert (and I know her and love her and she truly is a wonderful coach&#8230;) wrote a comment about my Circular Dating as Healing post - you can read her whole comment here-&#62;
Allana asked me a question - basically about the concept of taking a &#8220;break&#8221; from dating to heal&#8230;
For [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should You Have Sex?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/should-you-have-sex/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/should-you-have-sex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 20:55:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Sex &amp; Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[polyamorous]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[polyamory]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex and dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sleep with him]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=196</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
This is a jump off from Ashley&#8217;s comment - here-&#62; about how to date and handle sex and being a &#8216;Girlfriend.&#8221;
Ashley, here&#8217;s my take - when you&#8217;re young - say not yet within three to five years of wanting to have a child - though you really don&#8217;t want to fall into the &#8220;Girlfriend&#8221; trap [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Great Speed Dating Tips</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/great-speed-dating-tips/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/great-speed-dating-tips/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to find men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to meet men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[online dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[speed dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[where to date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[where to meet  men]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=194</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Every once in awhile I find an article or a post out there that I KNOW will be really helpful to you - and here&#8217;s one, from &#8220;AdviceMaven&#8221; at http://luvem-leavem.blogspot.com/.  It&#8217;s about &#8220;New Trends in Speed Dating,&#8221; - the tips here are wonderful all by themselves, and I&#8217;m going to add a way to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dating Heals Your Heartache</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/dating-heals-your-heartache/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/dating-heals-your-heartache/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 04:25:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal heartache]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[man magnet]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapist]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=192</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m writing this as a &#8220;jump-off&#8221; from a letter I received from &#8220;Jeanne.&#8221; I don&#8217;t want to print the letter itself, because I&#8217;m going to say something unfavorable about the therapist in the letter - so, here goes:
In the letter, &#8220;Jeanne&#8221; has a horrible-feeling pattern of getting involved with men who are Toxic, who are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Calls But Bethany Finds Her Anger - Post 2</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/he-calls-but-bethany-finds-her-anger-post-2/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/he-calls-but-bethany-finds-her-anger-post-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 02:10:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bethany's Story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[angry at man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[angry woman]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartache]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s the next letter from Bethany - You can see how she&#8217;s working the Tools, feeling so much more, expressing herself in Feeling Messages, doing the Tools from the Power &#38; Self-Esteem category on this blog and getting much better results with her men:
&#8220;Rori,
 
Okay, well, I&#8217;m going away with him for the weekend!  I felt [...]]]></description>
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		<title>New Tool To Attract Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/new-tool-to-attract-love/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/new-tool-to-attract-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 03:15:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract your man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good lover]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[healing music]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lover]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[music for love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[music heals]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[receive love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[wonderful lover]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=189</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This Tool is from Reshi&#8217;s comment - here&#8217;s what she wrote:
&#8220;This is completely random and off-topic but I just made up a Tool today that might help some women. I don&#8217;t know about most people, but I believe that the music you listen to has a huge subconscious effect on your emotional and mental programming. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Negotiate Being A &#8220;Girlfriend&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/how-to-negotiate-being-a-girlfriend/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/how-to-negotiate-being-a-girlfriend/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 02:32:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[YOUR Story &amp; Questions For Rori]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engagement]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engagement ring]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[exclusive relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[exclusive with man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[promise ring]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=188</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s my answer for Baby Blue Eyes - First - the question:
&#8220;Hi Rori, I have a question for you about the ‘Girlfriend Trap.’ I love the concept, but if a man officially asks a lady to be his ‘girlfriend,’ how does one decline - without putting him ‘off’?&#8221;
And here&#8217;s my answer:
Blue Eyes - If he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If You&#8217;re Pregnant And In Love - But He&#8217;s Not Sure Anymore</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/if-youre-pregnant-and-in-love-but-hes-not-sure-anymore/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/if-youre-pregnant-and-in-love-but-hes-not-sure-anymore/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 18:36:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[abortion]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[forced marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[late child]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marry him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pregnancy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pregnant]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[single mother]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[single motherhood]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[unwanted pregnancy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=179</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a problem from Emma I&#8217;d like to put out for your wonderful comments.  I&#8217;ll let Emma speak for herself:
&#8220;Dear Rori, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months, but we really get on well. A few weeks ago, he asked me to marry him. That weekend, we had sex without protection, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He’s Still Around In My Dreams - Teaching Me About Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/he%e2%80%99s-still-around-in-my-dreams-teaching-me-about-love/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/he%e2%80%99s-still-around-in-my-dreams-teaching-me-about-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 04:44:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[don't give up on love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[man of dreams]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[perfect man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[younger man]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=178</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is a personal story about a man who didn&#8217;t &#8220;work out&#8221; but who still shows up from time to time in my dreams&#8230;.
I was 12 years older than him, but we didn&#8217;t know it. It was a long time ago, and I&#8217;ll always think I almost married him - white picket fence and all.
I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Support For You If You Have Health Issues</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/physical-health-and-chronic-illness/support-for-you-if-you-have-health-issues/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/physical-health-and-chronic-illness/support-for-you-if-you-have-health-issues/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 21:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Physical Health &amp; Chronic Illness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breast cancer]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breat cancer survivor]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cancer survival]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[chronic fatigue]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[chronic illness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[epstein-barr]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[epstein-barr syndrome]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fatigue]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel good]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get healthy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get well]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[health issues]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[illness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lose weight]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[nutrition]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[recover from illness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[recovery]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[wellness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[womens health]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=184</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So many of the women I talk with are dealing with serious health issues like chronic illness, chronic fatigue, cancer, heart problems - so many other physical issues that take up all your time and energy, and make everything else in life so much more challenging.
I just read a comment here from Caroline, and wanted her, and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Glide Through Scary Dating</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/how-to-glide-through-scary-dating/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/how-to-glide-through-scary-dating/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2008 21:13:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[childhood abusee]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating after abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[domestic abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[healing emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to turn him down]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=177</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This post is in answer to Alias Girl - who&#8217;s working with Circular Dating and how to deal with men she doesn&#8217;t like, who offend her, who only want sex, or who are boring to her and who she no longer wants to date.  You can see the back and forth comments here-&#62;
This is going [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Turn Yourself On All Day Long</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/turn-yourself-on-all-day-long/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/turn-yourself-on-all-day-long/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2008 20:51:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Sex &amp; Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[female orgasm]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love yourself]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[masturbate]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[masturbation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[orgasm]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-pleasure]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex in marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex-less marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=173</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sex and sexuality and sensuality - all together - is such a powerful topic, and we hardly ever discuss it. It&#8217;s SO easy to get comfortable in the &#8220;companionship&#8221; part of any relationship (not only in a marriage), and just let the &#8220;juice&#8221; fade out.
And &#8220;scheduled&#8221; sex feels like such a chore&#8230;we&#8217;re all overworked and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Madonna&#8217;s Divorce And Your Love Life</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/madonnas-divorce-and-your-love-life/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/madonnas-divorce-and-your-love-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2008 17:44:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affair]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[celebrity divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[celebrity marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cheating spouse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Guy Richie]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Madonna]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Madonna divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rescue marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[save marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=168</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Although no one can even pretend to know what exactly happened between Madonna and Guy Richie after all these years of being together in a rare, successful marriage - my own best guess would be that Madonna is not a woman willing to &#8220;work&#8221; on a relationship that doesn&#8217;t feel good to her.
Perhaps this is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Revive Sex In Your Relationship</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/revive-sex-in-your-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/revive-sex-in-your-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2008 21:12:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Sex &amp; Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[better sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bring love back]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bring sex back]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get sex back]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[juice in marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[low libido]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[low testosterone]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[save marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex in marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality in marriage]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=159</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay - we&#8217;re going to start talking about sex, and how to bring it back in a relationship or marriage that&#8217;s been going without.
I&#8217;m jumping off a comment by Reshi - who&#8217;s been in a nearly sexless marriage for a long time.  She says &#8220;&#8230;He sleeps in the guest room, won&#8217;t have sex with me, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Channel Your Feminine Power Into The Next Step</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/channel-your-feminine-power-into-the-next-step/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/channel-your-feminine-power-into-the-next-step/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 19:17:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[action list]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[channel energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[channel feelings]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feminine]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feminine power]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[femininity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fun relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[have fun]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[having fun]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[healing emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Masculine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[power]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship turnaround]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-regard]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-respect]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[to-do-list]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=153</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m jumping off into some next steps after your wonderful Riffing and turning things around.
I totally don&#8217;t want to move too fast here. You have to really get into the steps we&#8217;ve done - they have to become automatic in order for you to take this next step - so make sure you can riff [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do When You Feel Rejected</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/what-to-do-when-you-feel-rejected/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/what-to-do-when-you-feel-rejected/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 18:50:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup &amp; Divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[call him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[call man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cold man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[have love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal from heartbreak]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartache]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rejection]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[why isnt he calling]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[withdrawing man]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=160</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m going to tackle &#8220;Rejection&#8221; here.
So many of us have stayed a long time in a relationship where we&#8217;ve been rowing the boat, carrying the water, doing EVERYTHING imaginable to keep the boat AFLOAT and it&#8217;s just falling apart.  He&#8217;s just so careless about us we don&#8217;t know what to do next. (Yes, I know, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When Your Boyfriend Wants Space - Focus on YOU</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/when-your-boyfriend-wants-space-focus-on-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/when-your-boyfriend-wants-space-focus-on-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 18:10:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[YOUR Story &amp; Questions For Rori]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[long-term relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[space in relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=151</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is from Maria&#8217;s comment:
&#8220;My boyfriend and I for almost 2 years now are often more off than on. (On and Off) Of course I’ve done all the things should not do. However he told me he needed some space away from me. Has stopped calling me. I know we love each other, but how [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Manage The Men Who Show Up</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-manage-the-men-who-show-up/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-manage-the-men-who-show-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 17:59:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[low quality men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mr right]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=158</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
There were so many brilliant comments and questions to my post on what to do if you&#8217;re Attracting Low Quality Men&#8230;so check out the comments, and I&#8217;ll answer them here&#8230;
First - Daria...about going to see this man.  A platonic male friend is one thing (When I&#8217;ve had those in my life - it was clear [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If You&#8217;re Attracting Low-Quality Men - Try This</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/if-youre-attracting-low-quality-men-try-this/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/if-youre-attracting-low-quality-men-try-this/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 17:18:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[YOUR Story &amp; Questions For Rori]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[find man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mr right]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mr. wrong]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[right man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=147</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is fantastic! I&#8217;m truly starting to get a fuller idea of who you are and what your situation is - and yet I&#8217;m going to answer just off of each comment, as if I don&#8217;t know you, to give a better answer&#8230;
FIRST - it&#8217;s important that you know we are all DIFFERENT. Our personalities [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Deal With A Depressed Man</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/how-to-deal-with-a-depressed-man/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/how-to-deal-with-a-depressed-man/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 12:46:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[YOUR Story &amp; Questions For Rori]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract depressed man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bottled feelings]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[depressed man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[depressed men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal depression]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[my man is depressed]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rage]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=149</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re talking about attracting and then rejecting &#8220;low-quality&#8221; men - or just men YOU don&#8217;t feel are good quality. And we&#8217;re talking about what to do with those men for PRACTICE (and perhaps even TRANSFORMING them) instead of passing on them and shutting them out the moment their bad qualities show up.
This answer is for [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Ask Your Questions Here - And I&#8217;ll Answer In New Posts</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/ask-your-questions-here-and-ill-answer-in-new-posts/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/ask-your-questions-here-and-ill-answer-in-new-posts/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 00:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[YOUR Story &amp; Questions For Rori]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[realtionship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=145</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I so want to answer every single question I get from you, so want to hear every single step you take and every story you so graciously write me about -
I thought it might make it easier and faster for me to give you the most help I can by simply working my answers to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He&#8217;ll Feel Safe To Open Up With You When YOU Feel Safe With You</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/hell-feel-safe-to-open-up-with-you-when-you-feel-safe-with-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/hell-feel-safe-to-open-up-with-you-when-you-feel-safe-with-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 20:50:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract a man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional safety]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep your man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=144</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A man CANNOT feel SAFE with us until we feel SAFE with OURSELVES.
In order for him to entrust you with his full self (and almost all men think they&#8217;re horrible somewhere deep inside, with horrible impulses and terrible guilt, and all the same bad training we women have endured our whole lives) - he has [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If He&#8217;s Keeping You Off Balance, Do This</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/if-hes-keeping-you-off-balance-do-this/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/if-hes-keeping-you-off-balance-do-this/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 17:14:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[afraid of commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment-phobe]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[man who's a player]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[men's fear of commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esttem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-punishment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=142</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve been putting up with confusing behavior from a man, and it doesn&#8217;t feel good, I know how you feel.
You know many of my most embarrassing, humiliating stories, and how I stopped allowing that kind of &#8220;man who feels good but makes me feel bad&#8221; into my life - and I want to help [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Love The Sensations In Your Body</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/love-the-sensations-in-your-body/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/love-the-sensations-in-your-body/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2008 21:28:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[body image]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel good]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[healing emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lvoe your body]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pleasure]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[power in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-talk]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sensation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[woman's body]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[woman's issues]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[women's issues]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=131</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a Tweak for the last step we did in this series, about going into the SENSATIONS in your body that come up as you&#8217;re RIFFING through these Tools.
In step one, you listed your &#8220;problems.&#8221; then we Flipped them into WANTS, then we went into how wanting something feels, then to how HAVING what you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is Fear About The Economy Affecting Your Relationship?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/is-fear-about-the-economy-affecting-your-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/is-fear-about-the-economy-affecting-your-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 17:42:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breadwinner]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[economic depression]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[economic recession]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[economy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[financial security]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[masculine man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[recession]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[women making money]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=126</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Fear is the enemy of love. No doubt about it.
Our fear of losing ourselves, and his fear of losing himself. Our fear of being hurt, and his fear of being hurt. Our fear of being disrespected, his fear of being disrespected. Our fear of being alone, his fear of being committed forever and trapped.
And money [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Imagine HAVING What You Want</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/imagine-having-what-you-want/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/imagine-having-what-you-want/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 21:04:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get his love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get more love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[positive thinking]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[want love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[wanting love]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=123</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay - I want a NEW list, now - (This is getting more and more fun&#8230;)
Now that you have your list of &#8220;problems&#8221; and you&#8217;ve Flipped them to WANTS, and you&#8217;ve loved and adored and accepted those wants and worries and fears - I want you to -
Imagine what it would FEEL like to HAVE [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting More Love By Giving Up Control - Session 1</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/getting-more-love-by-giving-up-control-session-1/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/getting-more-love-by-giving-up-control-session-1/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 18:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bethany's Story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[control in relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship coaching]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=122</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever felt like you were stuck in a hole with your relationship, and that everything you do, say and think is digging you in deeper and making you feel more scared, upset, angry and miserable?
Not only have I felt like that, so many of my clients start out like that. In my newsletters, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He&#8217;s Staying Over At His Ex-Girlfriend&#8217;s House - What To Do&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/other-women-in-his-life/hes-staying-over-at-his-ex-girlfriends-house-what-to-do/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/other-women-in-his-life/hes-staying-over-at-his-ex-girlfriends-house-what-to-do/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 20:32:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Other Women In His Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cheating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ex-girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ex-wife]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[exclusive relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[live-in boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship communication]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=121</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a piece of a comment from Roxanne  (you can read her whole comment here: )
&#8220;Rori, I have been in a relationship for over 2 yrs now. He loves me, treats me like a queen. Made commitments to me but continues to sleep over at his x girlfriends saying she is just a x and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Coaching Yourself To Power And Self-Esteem</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/coaching-yourself-to-power-and-self-esteem/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/coaching-yourself-to-power-and-self-esteem/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Oct 2008 00:03:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[communicate with men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pwer]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[realtionship communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-growth]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-talk]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=120</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is blowing me away. What you&#8217;re doing here is taking the Tools in this blog, and then Coaching YOURSELF! And then, by sharing everything you feel and everything that&#8217;s happening, so many of us can learn so much.
And then I reply and Tweak - and you can see, just by looking at the dialogues [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Manifesting Your Desires Without Trying</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/manifesting-your-desires-without-trying/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/manifesting-your-desires-without-trying/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 19:14:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get romance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[law of attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[manifesting desires]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[manifesting success]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-love]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=119</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is some gorgeous stuff here - following your feelings and your thoughts around your body - and loving and accepting every single one of them&#8230;
Stacy made another wonderful comment, and I&#8217;d like to jump off from it:
I&#8217;m going to &#8220;Tweak&#8221; this - so I&#8217;ll let you know what I mean by &#8220;Tweak.&#8221; The way [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stop Solving Problems - Love Your Fear, Rage, And Desire</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/stop-solving-problems-love-your-fear-rage-and-desire/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/stop-solving-problems-love-your-fear-rage-and-desire/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 23:31:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotinal healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[enlightenment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[selfesteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=118</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I was going to move on after the Themes and the Problem Lists and the Flip - but I wanted to go deeper into Themes - and wanted to jump off of a comment from Stacy - where she wrote out these &#8220;Themes&#8221;:
&#8220;i feel selfish for wanting to be happy.
i feel undeserving and selfish to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting Away From Spousal Abuse</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/emotional-and-physical-abuse/getting-away-from-spousal-abuse/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/emotional-and-physical-abuse/getting-away-from-spousal-abuse/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 17:35:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional &amp; Physical Abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional neglect]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[husband abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage neglect]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[spousal abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[verbal abuse]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=117</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever let your self-esteem get so low that you tolerate bad treatment from a man?
For me - it was words.  It was clever jabs, humorous remarks - all funny (other people laughed, so I did, too) words.  But those words were about my weight, my double chin, my this, my that - they [...]]]></description>
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		<title>From Problem Solving To More Love - Step 3</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/from-problem-solving-to-more-love-step-3/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/from-problem-solving-to-more-love-step-3/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 21:34:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal heartache]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve relationship problems]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=116</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If problem-solving is stressing you out - if it&#8217;s making you feel angry and triggering your need to control everything (we all have this going on&#8230;) then here&#8217;s the next step to helping yourself. 
You&#8217;re going to KEEP A LOG.
Often, in the flurry of the energy we spend trying to solve a problem so it&#8217;ll turn [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are You In An Imaginary Relationship?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/are-you-in-an-imaginary-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/are-you-in-an-imaginary-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 06:27:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirt]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[imaginary relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lonely]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=109</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever focused all your attention on one man, and still felt completely unsure about where things stand?
Even after a year or two?
Where you just don&#8217;t feel like he&#8217;s committed to you, or that you have a future together, but you talk yourself OUT of that feeling and just keep going on hope?
I used [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Get The Love You Want Instead Of Solving Problems - The FLIP</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/get-what-you-want-instead-of-solving-problems-the-flip/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/get-what-you-want-instead-of-solving-problems-the-flip/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 23:41:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fears]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lose weight]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[prayer]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[problem solving]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[serenity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solving problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[worries]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[worry]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=100</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If your mind, your heart, and your energy are filled to the brim with &#8220;problems&#8221; to solve, you are so not alone&#8230;
&#8230;not only am I working with my own instincts around problem-solving, I&#8217;ve received beautiful lists of &#8220;problems from lovely women like you (please send more - this is not only incredibly helpful for us [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stop Solving Problems And Get More Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/stop-solving-problems-and-get-love-instead/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/stop-solving-problems-and-get-love-instead/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 20:19:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[more love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve problems]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=96</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
It&#8217;s so easy to feel angry and push a man away.
Whenever my husband forgets to do something, or isn&#8217;t there when I need him or just WANT him, or one of us gets sick and so we go too long without sex, it&#8217;s so easy for me to go through my old patterns of feelings [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Use Dating To Find Out Who He Is And What He&#8217;s Really Made Of&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-use-dating-to-find-out-who-he-is-and-what-hes-really-made-of/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-use-dating-to-find-out-who-he-is-and-what-hes-really-made-of/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 18:47:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[authentic communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[where to go on a date]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=95</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Dating is your ultimate opportunity to learn how to be soft, open, warm and truthful on the outside, and strong, fully Boundaried and secure on the inside.
Here&#8217;s a great question from &#8220;J&#8221; about how to do this - I love this question because If we can tweak the way J is going about talking to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do If He&#8217;s Stationed Overseas in the Armed Forces - And He Isn&#8217;t Interested In Your Life At Home&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/what-to-do-if-hes-stationed-overseas-in-the-armed-forces-and-he-isnt-interested-in-your-life-at-home/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/what-to-do-if-hes-stationed-overseas-in-the-armed-forces-and-he-isnt-interested-in-your-life-at-home/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 22:18:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Long-Distance Relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[air force]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[armed forces]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[army wife]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[army wives]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[husband overseas]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[long-distance relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=90</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Andrea made such a powerful, frustrating comment on this blog, I wanted to do a whole post - perhaps a whole series of posts - on her situation.
Andrea&#8217;s at home, 6 months pregnant, while her husband is stationed overseas. She&#8217;s feeling emotional, needy, and missing him terribly.
She calls him several times a day and wants [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Be Curious Without Getting All Involved In His Business&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/how-to-be-curious-without-getting-all-involved-in-his-business/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/how-to-be-curious-without-getting-all-involved-in-his-business/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 20:47:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ask man questions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[curiousity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[understand man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[understand men]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=86</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Daria asked this:
&#8220;Rori, I remember you talking about being curious about the man… would this mean we can ask questions to find out what we’re curious about? I also remember that things about him are &#8220;his business.&#8221; So how do these two concepts work?&#8221;
Here&#8217;s my answer:
1. Being curious is in the moment, and it&#8217;s about [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A Tool To Make Your Romantic Desires Powerful - Register To Vote</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/a-tool-to-make-your-romantic-desires-powerful-register-to-vote/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/a-tool-to-make-your-romantic-desires-powerful-register-to-vote/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 20:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Barack Obama]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[democrat]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[election]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[empower yourself]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[female empowerment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Joe Biden]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[John McCain]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love yourself]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[president]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[register to vote]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Republican]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Sarah Palin]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[vote]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[voter registration]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=85</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m going to use voting as a Tool to feel more powerful - so let&#8217;s look at it just from the personal perspective of your love life.
Let&#8217;s say that voting isn&#8217;t about politics - it&#8217;s about empowerment. It&#8217;s about believing that you count. Just you, one person, one woman.
We get so caught up in feeling like part of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Outgirl Him And Get The Love You Want</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/outgirl-him-and-get-the-love-you-want/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/outgirl-him-and-get-the-love-you-want/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 01:21:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[leanback]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[masculine man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ourgirl]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[overfunction]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=83</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a comment from Linda about Leaning Back that I wanted to turn into a follow-up post:
&#8220;Thank you Rori, This is just good stuff. I have always leaned forward. I can&#8217;t wait to try this (Leaning Back). My boyfriend always always leans back. so if we both lean back&#8230;Can that work.. ? I look back [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do If Your Man Still Feels Emotional About Another Woman</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/other-women-in-his-life/what-to-do-if-your-man-still-feels-emotional-about-another-woman/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/other-women-in-his-life/what-to-do-if-your-man-still-feels-emotional-about-another-woman/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Sep 2008 01:11:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Other Women In His Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[betrayal]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cheating in marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[husband cheating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[save marriage]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=84</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A man can betray us in many ways.
He can betray us sexually.  He can simply lie to us about how he feels.  He can have an emotional connection with another woman that takes him away from us. He can have a fantasy life that keeps him from committing fully to a deep relationship with us.
Mimi [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Love Spell - Oxytocin Spray For Him?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/love-spell-oxytocin-spray-for-him/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/love-spell-oxytocin-spray-for-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 18:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[better relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love spell]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[loving man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[oxytocin]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=82</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I just saw an article for a product - Oxytocin in a spray bottle.
Oxytocin is a hormone we women make plenty of that makes us feel good, makes us feel connected and loving, and makes us feel loved. It makes us feel bonded to ourselves, and it makes us feel bonded to a man.
Oxytocin is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Communication Crisis - So You Want To Change Your Man?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/communication-crisis-so-you-want-to-change-your-man/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/communication-crisis-so-you-want-to-change-your-man/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 23:30:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[change man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[communication in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix husband]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[he doesn't take care of himself]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[negotiation in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship deal breaker]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=80</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[He&#8217;s overweight.  He doesn&#8217;t eat right.  His hygiene isn&#8217;t perfect.  His teeth could use a cleaning.  His skin could use some cleanser and over-the-counter-acne-formulation.  His breath needs help.  What do you do?  How do you tell him without making him feel bad?
When I read this letter from Andie, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Breed Happiness, Even If You Feel Hurt&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/how-to-breed-happiness-even-if-you-feel-hurt/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/how-to-breed-happiness-even-if-you-feel-hurt/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 19:11:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[law of attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[painful relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[positive thinking]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=76</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever been in pain over a relationship, and a friend comes along and tells you to &#8220;relax&#8221; - and that just sounds to you like &#8220;suck it up&#8221; - or some other dismissive, easy thing for them to say?
I&#8217;ve always felt even worse when someone says something like that, and so my work [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How Loving Being Vulnerable Gets You More Love - No Matter What</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/how-loving-being-vulnerable-gets-you-more-love-no-matter-what/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/how-loving-being-vulnerable-gets-you-more-love-no-matter-what/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Sep 2008 07:05:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cold]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[femininity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flu]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[getting well]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sickness]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=75</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ When you&#8217;re sick, you feel Vulnerable.
I&#8217;ve had a cold for a few days, and though it&#8217;s slowed me down some, there&#8217;s something about being &#8220;under the weather&#8221; that can really work for us, here.
This is what usually happens to us when we get a cold or flu: We don&#8217;t have the energy we need to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Attract A Man &#038; Let Him Take Care Of You - Even In A Parking Lot</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-let-a-man-take-care-of-you-even-in-a-parking-lot/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-let-a-man-take-care-of-you-even-in-a-parking-lot/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 09:43:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feminist]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[goddess]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[shopping men]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=70</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So I&#8217;m at Trader Joes.  I&#8217;m in the parking lot, I&#8217;ve just load the groceries into my trunk, and I&#8217;m deciding what to do with the empty cart. 
I really want to just leave it there, I&#8217;m tired, but I take the handle and start across the lot to put it with the other carts.  Out [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If He&#8217;s Betrayed Your Marriage&#8230;Start Here&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/if-hes-betrayed-your-marriagestart-here/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/if-hes-betrayed-your-marriagestart-here/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 03:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad husband]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[betrayal]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[country house]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[husband cheating]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Helene, who&#8217;s been devastated by her husband&#8217;s behavior:
&#8220;Dear Rori, My husband of twelve years wants to end our marriage.
We bought two acres together and built our dream house on it. It took two and half years of labor, and basically living our lives apart except for weekends. We agreed to live [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Talk To Your Man And Bring Him Closer</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/talk-to-him-to-bring-him-closer/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/talk-to-him-to-bring-him-closer/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 02:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[talk to man]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=62</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I was taught to hold it all in, and then resent what&#8217;s going on around me.
And it&#8217;s taken all the Tools I&#8217;ve created for myself and a fierce desire to be IN my body, to know my own heart, and to connect with people I love to turn that around for myself.
Every moment of every [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Name Your Happy, Dreamy Journal  - And Let&#8217;s Get What We Want</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/name-your-happy-dreamy-journal-and-lets-get-what-we-want/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/name-your-happy-dreamy-journal-and-lets-get-what-we-want/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2008 02:46:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dream man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[journal writing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[positive thinking]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=59</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
I have several journals - some I claimed when I was out shopping for journals for gifts for friends, some were gifts to me, and they each have bits written in them. Each has a name of it&#8217;s own that I didn&#8217;t think up, it just sort of arrived with the journal. One has a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sarah Palin - The Working Mother Debate</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/sarah-palin-the-working-mother-debate/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/sarah-palin-the-working-mother-debate/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 05:23:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[election]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[female vice-president]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[John McCain]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[presidential candidate]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Republican]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[running mate]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Sarah Palin]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[vice-president]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[working mother]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I was growing up during the Feminist movement, when it all seemed weird that a woman wanted equal pay for equal work, and that we all wanted to be able to run companies and work our way up the company ladder without talking a back-seat or deferring to men. 
And now we have a vice-presidential nominee who&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dealing With Jealousy&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/jealousy/dealing-with-jealousy/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/jealousy/dealing-with-jealousy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 19:40:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Jealousy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[jealous in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[jealouy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop jealousy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[trust man]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[
I don&#8217;t like jealousy.
I don&#8217;t like feeling that way.
And if you&#8217;re like me, you were brought up to feel jealous.  I was taught and told pretty much that if someone else had something, then I couldn&#8217;t have it.  It was either them or me.
And at the same time, we women have been slammed from birth for [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Save Your Long-Distance Relationship</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/how-to-go-from-long-distance-to-together-forever/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/how-to-go-from-long-distance-to-together-forever/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 22:43:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Long-Distance Relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[1.]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fear of intimacy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get close to your man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[his fear of intimacy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[long-distance relationship]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes the hardest thing about long-distance relationships is when the long-distance part is over. Here&#8217;s a letter from Sarah, who&#8217;s struggling with just that:
&#8220;Dear Rori, I am Sarah. I have this wonderful guy, we are engaged, almost getting married but things went wrong and now I don&#8217;t even know the status of my relationship.
Like many other [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Give Up On Love And Relationship!</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/dont-give-up/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/dont-give-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 18:57:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[women's issues]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=53</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m writing to tell you to not give up on your dream of having the man and the relationship you truly want and so deserve.
No matter what.
Every woman I talk to thinks there&#8217;s something wrong with her and that it&#8217;s &#8220;too late.&#8221;
And I&#8217;m here to tell you that&#8217;s just not true.  That&#8217;s just a load [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Get Your Man to Come To YOU&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/feminine-energy/what-leaning-forward-looks-like-2/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/feminine-energy/what-leaning-forward-looks-like-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2008 00:35:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[give love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Masculine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[receive love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[talk with men]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Leaning Forward and Leaning Back are Tools that help you &#8220;get&#8221; - in your BODY - what the &#8220;energy flow&#8221; between you and a man feels like.
And most of us are ALWAYS Leaning Forward.  Because Leaning Forward is the same as &#8220;giving, serving, offering, doing&#8230;&#8221; all the Masculine Energy things we&#8217;re taught to do with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If He&#8217;s Contacting Other Women Online&#8230;.</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/if-hes-contacting-other-women-online/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/if-hes-contacting-other-women-online/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 00:43:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Other Women In His Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Porn And Your Man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cheating man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirting boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[porn addiction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[trust in relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=51</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The Internet has created so many wonderful things for us, and it&#8217;s also created some nightmares for us women.
Our men can not only look at porn with the click of a mouse, they can also &#8220;social network&#8221; with women all over the world on all kinds of sites - even legit ones like myspace.
So what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Attract Him Long-Distance - Just On The Phone</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/how-to-attract-him-long-distance-just-on-the-phone/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/how-to-attract-him-long-distance-just-on-the-phone/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 23:51:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Long-Distance Relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=50</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When all you have is the phone, email and texts to keep in touch with the man you love, because you live in different cities or even different countries, you have to know how to use what you&#8217;ve got.
(In my Heart Connection Toolkit CD set, I teach you the Goodnight Talk, and walk you through how [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Ground Rules For Long-Distance&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/ground-rules-for-long-distance/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/ground-rules-for-long-distance/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 00:08:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Long-Distance Relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rules for relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[The Rules]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[A Long-Distance Relationship feels difficult if you and your man can really DO a real, in-person relationship.
And Long-Distance feels wonderful (in an underground, subconscious way) if you and your man have fear of intimacy and long-standing patterns of pushing love away.
In other words, some long-distance couples are happiest when apart, and fall to pieces when they actually move in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Solving The Long-Distance Relationship Puzzle</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/solving-the-long-distance-relationship-puzzle/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/solving-the-long-distance-relationship-puzzle/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 22:39:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Long-Distance Relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=48</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a question - from &#8220;Alice&#8221; - to start this discussion:
&#8220;Dear Rori, Please tell me if your principles for successful relationships apply to long distance relationships. Thanks, Alice&#8221;
Okay - this is a big one.
How do you have a &#8220;relationship&#8221; with a man you only see every-once-in-awhile? How can you stay bonded to each other, keep [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do About The Dreaded &#8220;Ex&#8221;&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/what-to-do-about-the-dreaded-ex/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/what-to-do-about-the-dreaded-ex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 18:27:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:cre