1. Write down all the things in the world that matter to you – that have NOTHING to do with a man.
It can be World Peace, it can be growing your business, it can be moving, it can be finishing a project – and relate any “smaller” ideas you get to a BIGGER end goal – a bigger DREAM that makes you feel happy.
2. Now make a list of anything you could do to help CHANNEL your energy, the power of your thoughts and feelings, into accomplishing any one of those things.
Yes – I’m talking here about Masculine Energy. This is total “BOY.”
3. Now look out a window (or imagine you’re looking out one) and write down things that are FUN.
Things that FEEL like fun.
I don’t want to hear a “have-to” in the bunch.
This is FUN CHANNELING.
We’re simply funneling and channeling the energy you’re using now to figure things out, to Problem-Solve into the happy, fun, ACTION, goal-oriented things on your list.
4. Now, purposefully schedule ways to keep that energy moving “out the window.”
Make an actual list.
5. Now – as you practice doing this, you’ll notice a lot of resistance from inside you. You’ll notice the desire to turn from this action work into thinking about a problem, a concern, or about your man – in your head.
You’ll notice yourself wanting to create action around the “thing” that’s bothering you – or around HIM.
Really catch that. Now…
6. Sink into the feelings – all of them.
Whatever they are…let them “roil” through you without judgment or comment…
…and the moment you feel ANY feeling that feels more about power than about defeat or concern or worry…
7. Then immediately go to your action list and TAKE AN ACTION.
DO SOMETHING from your list.
I really want you to associate your first feeling of power with action.
I want you to DO something from the list you have – whether it’s moving furniture, straightening your desk, walking outside, writing a letter to someone, redoing your resume, writing a business plan, starting the outline for your next book…whatever.
*It can’t be random with this step. It has to be something you thought up and wrote down.
If you read over your long list enough, you’ll remember a lot of steps, and so you can spontaneously do something from the list – but at some point I want you to:
8. Cross The Thing You Do OFF THE LIST.
I want you to associate the good, powerful feeling with a goal, with an action step, and with accomplishing it.
And this has absolutely NOTHING to do with HIM or “The Problem”!
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…and please let me know how this Channeling Tool works for you…