Don’t Let “Safe” Make You Sorry in Love

We are all driven by so many forces within us to make ourselves feel “safe.”

It’s all old stuff.

Old ways of coping with pain and grief, and frustration, and with the message we’ve been handed, over and over and over and over again – that we can’t have what we want.

That, if we even dreamed of having what we want, we’d have to work really, really hard to get it, or luck out in some way, or be blessed by some forces of nature with it.

And even then, we’ve been taught:

“It’s going to be hard to keep what we want.”

“It’s going to be difficult to have forever.”

And that’s just a big, crazy, upside-down lie.

So much of what we get in this life is what we tell ourselves we deserve.

We find things happening around us the way we’ve told ourselves they’ll happen – And then we tell ourselves “I told you so…”

The Question is: What came first: What I said to myself – or what happened?

If your love life isn’t going the way you’ve dreamed – there are SO many factors, reasons, causes for the “why” of it – and yet – you can’t “fix” the “why”!!!

Instead – you start from what feels like “scratch,” build on the amazing and working things you’ve learned your whole life (NOTHING is EVER wasted!), and baby-step your way into something completely new that makes you happy.

No-one, in my experience, teaches you how to do this (and holds your hand along the way) the way the Rori Raye Modern Siren Coaching Method does. It helps you bypass everything that’s ever happened in your past, bypass everything that isn’t working for you emotionally, psychologically, circumstantially and any other way imaginable – WITHOUT stress, pain, or “doing things” that don’t fit your personality and values.

What my clients do is all based on learning to love the process, and NOT be goal-oriented!

I know it sounds weird. Affirmations, “manifesting” – all of that seems to be what everyone out there teaches – and yet, in my experience, all that mental and emotional “doing” just causes us to RESIST!

It makes us want to eat MORE ice cream, date MORE hurtful and immature men, give MORE to a man we’re in a relationship with who isn’t giving US what WE NEED in order to thrive and be happy.

It makes us not want to listen to good advice, not want to feel anything (and our feelings are the basis of everything good!) – and makes us want to just keep doing what we’re already doing that isn’t working – only HARDER!!!

The brand new “Sirenity” 4-Week Live Coaching program is designed to give you so much support, time, personal guidance that’s meant just for YOU, that you’ll naturally just want to follow the program.

You’ll just want to take the baby-steps, use the Feeling Messages, stop and “See” (Sirenity Tools) that will not only change your vibe for the moment with a man – but will so permanently alter your vibe that you can take what you learn in 4 Weeks into your everyday life forever.

From the moment you sign up, the Sirenity team of amazing Rori Raye coaches will get behind you immediately, take you by the hand and heart to get you where you want to be in 4 Weeks. To read more about what you’ll get in the program, and quickly enroll and get into the private Facebook group (as usual – we’re only accepting 6 women, and 1 of the spaces are already taken!), go here->

https://coachrori.com/sirenity/

Let’s turn it all around together!

Love, Rori

 

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