Hi, this is Rori, and I had an idea.
It’s so easy to feel stuck – kind of seeing things from an ant’s point of view…
Always looking up, wondering where love is, where kindness is, where attention is…
I wonder what it would be like to be looking down, instead…
Here’s the written transcript of the Go High For Love video:
Hi, this is Rori, and I had an idea.
Are you stuck kind of seeing things from, you know, an ant’s point of view — looking up, wondering where love is, where kindness is, where attention is.
I wonder what it would be like to be looking down.
Imagine I’m up at skyscraper height looking down at my life and people and all of the feelings and thoughts and everything going on.
Now imagine that you’re up high above your own life.
You’re looking down at a whole sea of problems and pains and frustrations.
See if the perspective is different because, all of a sudden, you can see more.
That’s the huge part of this: you can see more.
You can see more than what just happened, what he just said, what you just felt.
When a man says something painful or you see something painful in the news, so many of the feelings that arise feel like a ton of bricks thrown right into your gut.
You just hurt, and the hurt goes through your whole body.
If that happened twice a day, I imagine you would never get fully out of that feeling.
So, what we tend to do instead is disassociate.
We just shut down.
We shut down in the face of those feelings, those thoughts, those situations.
We pull ourselves back a little bit.
We take ourselves away from the sea of what we’re experiencing, continually blocking everything that’s going on within us and without us.
Try, instead, to stay above, go up, look down, see the, the whole of what’s happening.
See that it’s not just one small thing, it’s a sea of small things.
And then see yourself.
You’re not in control of everything, but you can see everything.
You can see the connections between people.
You can see how the experiences happen: follow how what he said led to what you felt to what you said and what he felt and what he’s going through and what you’re going through.
You can start to see how it all connects, that not every scary moment is catastrophe or disaster or even something to be dealt with.
Sometimes the moments are just there to remind you to get your perspective up and look at the whole.
What is the whole?
The whole is that you love something, which is life.
I love my life.
I love myself.
I love this man.
I love my dog.
I love my cat.
I love this food.
I love being alive every morning when I get up, and I allow this feeling to permeate the whole that I see from up above, the whole landscape of my life.
I hope I’m not giving you vertigo here.
What happens when you look down at your whole life is you start to internalize the concept that if you can stay away from the fray, away from wandering through and digging through and experiencing continually the pain and the frustration and the triggers, all of the emotions that feel terrible will ease.
If you can stay from away constantly pinging from one thought to another about what could go wrong, you will find that nothing is going wrong.
You cannot be good for yourself or for anybody else if you stay in that mess, constantly pinging back and forth, being pushed around and buffeted by the winds of pain and frustration.
Allow yourself to be.
Rethinking everything will not help you nor anyone else.
Seeing from above, you still experience the pain; you have to, there’s no way around it, but you experience it in context.
You feel it and let it move through you.
Then you’re free to move into the spaces where you recognize love.
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There are many processes and ways to do both personal growth and relationships.
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My turnaround from a frightened, lonely woman who could not function both on an emotional level and a practical level in a relationship and so sacrificed my true self to what I thought would get me what I wanted in life but never did, to a confident, happy, intimately married woman who can both feel and think and Do and Be.
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If I look back, I can see from the distance of then to now, and then I can also pull that old moment up into this moment so that I almost re-experience it.
I am there, and also I am here – the emotions that come up when I re-experience feel like I imagine they did then – but without the intensity and urgency and nauseating terror.
I see the whole pattern of the depths of despair followed by a breakthrough into good feelings, even joy, and then a slow descent back into the “blues,” and then things happening that trigger more upset, until I find my body tense like a wire – like a rubber band stretched as far as it can go.
It’s like walking around like some kind of robot, afraid the band will snap and I’ll fly away and disappear, afraid to take a step, repeating the same moves and thoughts and words over and over again, until something happens that jars me so quickly the rubber band snaps.
And I remember when it felt like the rubber band snapped and the wire had lost it’s hold on one end, I didn’t so much fly away as drop down.
I remember and see images of wells and canyons, of dropping into myself. I remember the waves of emotion that came loose.
I’ve somehow chronicled all of these ups and downs in a way that I can almost predict, now, and have discovered ways to reverse the process – so that the wire never gets pulled tight, and the rubber band never stretches too much.
So that instead of catastrophic breakthroughs and then recoveries – sometimes taking years each, I can drop down, experience a small and not-so-scary breakthrough, and then return to a bigger sense of joy and a fuller sense of ease than I started with before the tightness and fear set in.
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