Have It All Teleclass Membership

What Can It Mean For YOU To Have It All?

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Cheryl Strayed, as she shares in her book “Wild” (Reese Witherspoon plays her in the film “Wild”), walked, alone, over 1100 miles on the Pacific Crest Trail – from the Mojave Desert to the state of Washington.

She did this without any experience or training, in an impulsive desire to clear her personal pain and heal herself.

And she did transform her entire life – inside and out.

The book and film feel so inspirational, on such an emotional level…that powerful image of “Walking The Trail” feels like it can not only shift our lives and heal our pain, as it did Cheryl’s, but actually make it possible for us to “Have It All.”

How “Walking The Feminine Trail” Gets You Everything:

It gets you moving.

It “starts” you along the path of your “WANTS” with inspiration, direction, hope and a plan.

womanelevatorIt’s not only your way “in” to a new kind of life for you, one that “feels” different every single MOMENT from the way your life feels now  –

It’s YOUR WAY OUT of everything old, stale, stuck and repetitive. It’s your way out of the nagging voices, self-blame and the constant feeling of having to unendingly leap over obstacles.

It’s a way to feel brave, and a way to use your new-found bravery.

It’s awesome.


*On The Feminine Trail, you feel like you’re standing tall and moving purposefully along the most powerful path you can be on. Where you inhabit everything around you.

*As you “walk,” you can see, hear, smell, taste, intuit and experience everything you want.

*Nothing is off limits.

*Here – on the “Trail” – you feel the entire cosmos of possibilities inside you.

*You feel “big” enough to take it all in. Spacious enough to have and hold space for it all.

The  “On The Trail” Tool:

Women in businessStart This Way:

1. Imagine yourself on The Feminine Trail.

2. Stand there for a moment on what might feel to you like a promontory, a vantage point, a brink, an edge – a place where everything drops away from you.

Where the air around you and heavens above you open themselves up to you.

3. Imagine this as if you’re high on a mountain.

4. Imagine an incredibly detailed vista of water, earth, sky, stars and beyond the stars all around you.

5. Imagine that you’re at the CENTER of all this.

6. Now, imagine yourself “standing” this way: As though you’re taking it all in, and radiating it all out

7. Imagine everything you want comes to you automatically, easily, without any effort on your part.


8. Imagine everything brilliant inside you that wants to be expressed radiating out of your skin your heart, your breath. Easily, without effort...it just moves…

9. Imagine yourself a conduit – a “channel” – for everything there is. What you see, and what you don’t see and can’t see, too…

This experience what it is to be a Modern Siren – not just in love, but in work, too. It’s how you can fill your days with work and play, and never feel “effort.”

It’s a new way to live your life – like a “girl” ALL the time. With NO settling, NO attempting to choose one thing over another because you’ve been taught, like all of us, that you “have to choose.”

It’s your way out of the old idea we’ve all been handed – the one that says “you can’t Have It All”!- because you can.

Spend Your Working Hours For YOU

We all spend many hours of our lives working.

Optimized-rori onparapetWhen you Walk The Feminine Trail, you know Why you’re working, What your work is about, What your work means to you and for you, Why you get up in the morning, What’s important to you, and the many “How’s” of making work – well, work…

How This Works With Your Masculine And Feminine Energies

Instead of thinking about “balancing” these parts of you (and please, completely do away with any thoughts that you must “diminish” one kind of energy in order to build another – you do NOT have to diminish your girl-ness to be successful in business, and you do NOT have to diminish your “boyness” to be successful in romance) –

Imagine what it would feel like to expand BOTH energies: Feminine AND Masculine.

We’re going BIGGER, not smaller.

***This is where you can build and use your masculine energy without overpowering your feminine energy.

***Where you can “switch hats” from masculine to feminine without a hitch – and without turning into a “doormat.”

***Where you can soar as a PERSON, and a Businesswoman – without sacrificing love, romance – and “girlness.”

tightrope***This is what it means to be a “Modern Siren” – To Have It All: “boy energy” and “girl energy” working together.

Working together to get you going as BIG as you can dream.

And…at the same time…Becoming more of who you already are inside.

This is the place where going “big” actually gets you even deeper into yourself – and the process expands you in a whole, total way.

How Does It Feel?

It feels…fluid.

It feels like an openness inside your heart and body, a relaxation of your mind, a sense of receiving.

A feeling of “rightness” with yourself – without that feeling of “doing nothing” that feels terrible to all of us who actually have some dreams and desires.

It’s being more of a “girl” – with more support from your inner “boy.”

2012-09-17 01.04.19cropped2It’s a combination of business systems and brain know-how (boy energy) – and an organic sense that you’re moving through the world ecstatically, not from ideas and thoughts in your head – but led by something continually emerging from within (girl energy).


It’s the difference between engaging with the world from the solid, instinctive “knowing” powerhouse of your girl energy, instead of “trying” to figure things out from your tired, overworked and over-conditioned brain.

It’s a feeling of expansion with instantaneous results that you can experience in a moment.

It’s what shows up when you drop the old stuff.

Let me show you how…

As I’ve been training and developing new Rori Raye Relationship Coaches, I’ve also discovered the joys of helping each new coach create a booming business – even in the tough and “over-represented” niche of relationship advice.

rori stage 6The results have been astounding, and, also because I get such a huge kick out of completely turning around the entire business and marketing strategy of people I like, I’ve been doing that more and more.

And every single woman I work with faces the same obstacle – over and over: It feels somehow “wrong” in our heads (even if we’re not aware of the inner “fight”) to have huge success in business AND success in love at the same time.

If this is you – It’s “either career or a man…” – I’m here to fix that thought.

That thought isn’t just in our heads – it’s everywhere.

The concept of “where women belong” hasn’t changed enough – yet! – for us to fully believe that we CAN have both.

And we can – it just has to look differently.

I’m a living example, and so are my Certified Coaches.

The trick is to let go of everything anyone’s ever said to you about your “limitations.”

Let go of every lecture you’ve ever heard about “How the world works.”

Let your Siren-ness define your possibilities – not what anyone has ever said, or even how things may look.

“Walking The Feminine Trail” is the best way I can describe how being a Siren In Business works.

highway of loveBy envisioning yourself as “big” out in the world as you can imagine, putting systems in place to get you there, and learning to express yourself to potential clients and customers all over the world through writing, speaking and videos in a way that REACHES them emotionally – you can leap ahead of 99.99% of everyone else out there. Even in a so-called “crowded “niche.”

And – While you’re working so hard, and focusing your brainpower on business, money, and offering your gifts to the world – learning the ropes of The Feminine Trail makes it so you’re actually “intensifying” your romantic life.

It’s no longer one or the other: “The Career or The Man”…you can have BOTH!

Walking The Feminine Trail Means You Have Expanded Access To BOTH Your Feminine AND Masculine Energies – And Only We Women Can Do This!

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAPART ONE: Siren of Business Success Systems And Structure:

You have to know what you’re doing.

You have to know what you want, what you think, why you want it to work, and how it will look once it’s working. This is Masculine.

You have to know who you’re talking to out there in the world, why you’re talking to them, what exactly it is you have to say, and how to reach them.This is Masculine.

And once you reach the people you want to talk to – you need to know exactly how to express yourself so they know it’s YOU talking to them! This is Feminine…

They need to feel, down to their toes, that what they’re reading and listening to and watching isn’t just someone “saying” things – but YOU saying things.

In YOUR way.

With YOUR intent. With YOUR special gifts and intuition.

With YOUR personality and personal story and background and collection of information.

With YOUR experience.

With YOUR way of expressing what you know – and who you are.

All feminine.

It’s the YOU in this that makes a person who’s never even heard of you want to know you. Want to listen to you. Want to buy your time or your products.

It’s the YOU in this that makes a person who’s never even heard of you almost instantly become your advocate, your devoted follower, and your customer for life.

Haven’t we all experienced this with a celebrity?

I know I’ve instantly fallen for an actor (or actress) from one performance. I’ve felt myself become their secret champion forever…(if we get to know each other – I’ll tell you who those people are in my life…and you can tell me who YOURS are!)

Once you’ve become enamored of someone you don’t even know: They can do no wrong.

And that can be YOU – where you literally can do no wrong.

And here’s part TWO of “Have It All!”:

dream man without authorPART TWO: The Siren Of Love And Soul

You can do this all (work hard, think hard, implement fast, make more money, get known, get read and seen – and not only “get” your man – but get him faster, easier, and with less “thinking about it” than you can even imagine right now.

Most of us think that if we “Lean In” to our work – we’ll push a man out of our lives.

And that’s because no one’s ever taught us otherwise.

But look around you – does Angelina Jolie seem to be less attractive to Brad Pitt the more she pushes the envelope of her gifts and accomplishments?

And yet – how are your girlfriends doing at combining work and love successfully?

If you and your friends have been “trained” throughout life like most of us women have – not so easy.

It’s because we’ve been “sold” the opposite meaning of the words of my core concept: “Strong Surrender.”

We habitually assume that “Surrender” must mean being a throwback kind of old-fashioned girl who gives herself up for a man…and that’s not the way it works.

My concept of Strong Surrender is about being so strong on the inside that you can be soft and “surrendered” to yourself, to the taking in of life and experience and feeling – on the outside.

What this feels like and looks like is what my book “Surrender To Love” is all about.

How the feeling of letting down our guard solves and simplifies so much that we believe to be hopeless and complex.

**And – we hardly ever hear the word “surrender” together with the words used to talk about great business success.

Out in the world – the word “surrender” seems to be a “bad” word. A word that connotes weakness and all kinds of old-fashioned associations.

The truth is – that’s all a big lie, told to us over and over and over for someone else’s “convenience.”

Men LOVE successful, high-earning women.

What they DON’T love is the feelings of resentment we women have about being the dynamo in a relationship.

It’s us, believing and constantly telling ourselves that lie WE’VE been told and “sold.”

It’s our own judgments of ourselves, of life, of our men that cause us to believe we can’t Have It All.

Those feelings then “leak” out all over our men and create the tensions and stress we take for granted. As though those “problems” are “built in” to any situation where a woman is successful and brilliant.

We have ideas about how men are supposed to be – and we don’t have a clue how to assist in the creation of great feminine energy and great masculine energy in a partnership.

We assume that if we’re a powerhouse – a man would have to be feminine and weak and mild and “flowery” to want to be with us.

It absolutely does not work that way.

Women actually have an advantage in business. It’s just an advantage we don’t know how to USE – yet!

“The Good Wife” TV show isn’t just fantasy. There are hugely successful women all over the world now who are producing incredible things – and whose husbands are right beside them in ways most of us have never even thought of.

The reason it’s taken so long is that we don’t understand it ourselves. I truly believe that, even in a very male-dominated world – a world of fear and hatred and constraints against women – women who can revel in their power AND surrender can effect change.

You can do this. You can start by changing your own life.

Here’s How To Talk With Me About How You Can Begin Having It All!

cutie hair croppedYou can start right now by having BOTH sides of the coin: Career, work, money, entrepreneurship, being a powerhouse dynamo of a woman – AND – love, romance, knee-buckling sex, affection, emotion, harmony.

The moment you sign up for the Have It All! membership program, you’ll instantly have access to more than 25 hours of audio recordings and additional personal notes from me to start.

Then – in three months, you’ll also have access to the new Have It All program, with written Modules, Worksheets, and Questionnaires to help you use the Business Siren Protocols even faster and more powerfully.

You’ll also get this free Bonus: A 30-minute personal “Strategy Session” with me by phone or video Skype!

As soon as you sign up for Have It All – Melanie, the Have It All and Business Siren Administrator, will email you personally to schedule a time when you and I can work together.

During our Strategy Session together, we can talk about anything that’s concerning you – business or personal – and I’ll be able to assess your business model, your website presence, your writing – and uplevel everything for you with a plan to get what you want – faster!

Right now, the Have It All membership is the only way to work with me live, in your free Strategy Session that comes with the Have It All membership, without spending the $695 per hour charge for Business Siren consultations and coaching, or the $7000 cost of RRRCT (Rori Raye Relationship Coach Training).

To start now with your Have It All! program, Paypal is ready to send you to the Download page!:


What We’ll Be Talking About In Business Siren – Have It All!:


Business woman lokking at 3d road with up arrowIncluding Branding, Niche-ing, writing, website tech, website design, traffic and lead generation, getting clients, getting subscribers, the “Client Funnel” and all the technology and tech options around getting clients online – and “on-the-ground” locally in your town.

You’ll learn about photos, videos, “scaling” your business, what “building a list” actually means and how to do it.

With all the “hows,” also come the “How to AVOID all the pitfalls that slow you down and block you from either money and success, or love.

You’ll learn BOTH: How to get up in the morning and feel great being an entrepreneur working only for yourself – AND How to get up in the morning and feel great about driving to work for someone else!

We’ll work on knowing what’s important, and what’s just “hype…”

…and everything else that concerns you, feels like an obstacle, and is a personal challenge for your unique situation.

The Have It All! program isn’t just “general” – I’ll be getting down and personal with how your love life and your work are impacting each other. This way, I can help you Walk The Trail – so your love life HELPS your work life, and your work life HELPS your love life!


success in love and business2How to be a “girl” at home without diminishing your masculine drive about your work.

How to talk to a man when you’re not talking about business.

How to learn to “switch off your mind” when you’re with a man – and then pick it right up again to make business notes when you’re in the bathroom…!

To start now with your Have It All! program, just go here to Paypal, and I’ll send you your private “login” information to immediately be able to download the Have It All! recordings!:


I look forward to knowing you and working with you.

Love, Rori