How To Shift The Instinct To Attach To A Man Too Quickly

Here’s a fast, fresh Tool to help soften the instinct to get so attached to a man so quickly (something we’re all built to automatically do…) –

The Question:

“Rori, help, I get attached so quickly to a man – even one I’ve just met on a dating app – and it makes me feel so foolish and weak to get so attached…This is why I hate dating! June”

My Answer:

June, Hi, and, for me, the big word here – the word that will help you SO much is: “experience.”

You just need experience in Circular Dating – and once you do, you’ll begin to notice that you feel less quickly attached, you feel less expectations, you feel lighter and easier.

It’s sort of like dress shopping…:

*  If you zero in on one dress, everything about it becomes a big deal.

*  If you try on 50 dresses in 90 minutes in the fitting room, one right after the other – all of a sudden, so many things become clear!

You’ll experience different colors, different shapes, different materials – and start to recognize your reactions and responses to all those qualities.

So – I want to encourage you to begin trying on “men” the way you’d try on dresses! 

And…I believe you’ll be amazed how quickly your confidence will climb.

You’ll – without “working at it” – begin to trust your discernment, your “hits,” your intuition, your decisions and your feelings.

If you’d like personal help with Circular Dating – especially now, with “coronatimes” intensifying everything – get private coaching with wonderful Rori Raye coaches on Siren Circle here-> 

Love, Rori

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