Interview With Love And Relationship Coach Helena Hart

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BONUS:

Helena Hart’s Tips For “Having It All” In Business And Love

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For me, “having it all” in business and love involved getting my masculine energy in gear for MYSELF so I could recognize love when it showed up, and then allow it to organically become everything I ever dreamed of – rather than using my masculine energy to try to “make something happen” in my love life.

Before I started my business, I felt like I was working for someone else’s dream and not living up to my full potential – so I found myself trying to “make up the difference” in my love life.

I was using my masculine energy in all the wrong ways by focusing all of my mental energy on trying to find a man and a relationship – I was so attached to the “result” that I never got what I wanted.

When I started using my masculine energy for myself and my OWN life, that’s when my wonderful husband showed up – and I was actually open to him! Before this, I had only been open to a specific “type” of man that never worked out for me.

Using my masculine energy for myself and my business is what ALLOWS me to be in my feminine energy when I’m with my husband, which I believe is the key to what makes my relationship so incredible.

Here are my Top 5 Business Tips so that YOU can “have it all” by getting your masculine energy in gear for yourself in your business:

1. Focus On VALUE

If you want to grow your business, you have to add more VALUE to your clients and customers.

When you focus too much the numbers and on money, money tends to “shrink.” Instead, focus on how much VALUE you’re providing for your clients.

For example, ask yourself what you could do to add ten times as much value for your clients and customers.

What you think would be valuable may be different from what your CLIENTS think is valuable, so you want to find out exactly what your clients’ unmet needs are. You can ask your clients and potential clients questions such as:

What’s your biggest fear or frustration?

What’s your biggest desire or the outcome you want to achieve?

Many of your potential clients and customers will WANT to help you create products that will help them specifically.

2. Inevitability Thinking

Set up conditions so that what you want to accomplish in business WILL inevitably happen.

Ask yourself, “What conditions do I have to put into place so that what I want to accomplish happens automatically?

Make a public business or financial commitment to make sure you’re going to accomplish what you want.

For example, if you’re writing a book, allow people to pre-order it and state that it will be available by a certain date.

If you’re recording a program, consider recording it LIVE so that you have to come up with material by a certain date since people will be showing up.

3. Use Your Feminine Energy To Intuit What Would FEEL Best To Do In The Moment

Allow your innate feminine energy to organically create your “time effectiveness.”

Strict schedules, rules, and using my willpower to try to FORCE me to do something I need to get done have never worked for me.

Try using your feminine energy to ask yourself what would feel best do in the moment – and then let your masculine energy put it into play.

I find that I get so much more done when I do what I FEEL most compelled to do in the moment.

By the way, this “system” works WONDERS in your love life too!

4. Speed Of Implementation

The faster you execute projects, the more quickly you adapt and evolve your ideas (and the faster you’ll reach your goals!).

What makes successful people successful is their ability to act quickly – when they get a new idea, they can implement it right away, while others are still in the planning phase.

Remember, value is created when an idea is turned into a project and actually implemented. The value is in the implementation.

Forget about trying to make it perfect – just “put it out there” and see what happens! You can always edit and refine it later (you likely will).

5. Think Of Everything An An Experiment

Adopt the mindset that everything in your business is an EXPERIMENT.

Educate yourself by exposing yourself to the best of what others have done.

Test your ideas more often with your potential clients and customers – then take what works and implement it into your system.

This is a fantastic mindset to have in Circular Dating as well!

As an added bonus for helping you build your business, when you give your masculine energy something to DO, your love life will automatically improve. I’d love to hear how these tips work for you!

Love,

Helena Hart

P.S. – For more free tips on “having it all” in life and love, visit www.helenahartcoaching.com and get your FREE “3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want” report!

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1 Comments

  1. Helena Hart on May 29, 2015 at 3:38 pm

    Thanks so much for posting this, Rori!! I had a blast doing this interview with you!

    Love, Helena