Members: RRRCT Discussion

rori pixlrWelcome to all you incredible new coaches!

I’ll post something short for each week so you can keep up a discussion, help each other with the Training, support each other personally and professionally. I’ll jump in every day to answer questions as I can.

Also – please let me know here about any mistakes or typos in the Manual!

Love, Rori

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  1. Rori Raye on August 19, 2013 at 5:18 pm

    Some have had trouble getting to this post – so I’m trying something new technically (that’s why no other comments!)…hope this works!

  2. Morellis on August 21, 2013 at 11:35 am

    Hey Sirens, are you getting this?

  3. jen on August 22, 2013 at 6:54 pm

    It did Rori, and yes Morellis I am getting it.

  4. jen on August 23, 2013 at 5:33 pm

    I have been working on my mission statement, and did some research online, on the Forbes website is a list of 4 questions; 1) What do I do ? 2) How do I do it? 3) Whom do I do it for? 4) What value do I bring? There is also a list of mission statements for the fortune 500 –

  5. Jeanine on August 23, 2013 at 6:52 pm

    I’m here too gals! Thanks Rori and thanks Jen (fellow Belle) for the tips!

  6. Carrie on September 7, 2013 at 10:35 am

    Hi ladies! I would love to visit everyone’s website…if I only knew your website address! 🙂 haha

    I was thinking maybe we could start “following” each other as a way to build our online communities?

  7. Carrie on September 7, 2013 at 10:36 am

    p.s. My website is

  8. Morellis on September 10, 2013 at 2:23 am

    Hey Carrie,
    thas a great idea AND I don’t have my website yet 🙁

  9. Morellis on September 10, 2013 at 2:24 am

    Hey fellow coaches,
    one of my clients is getting asked for exclusivity on a second date and the guy is even offering a Ring! The guys is amazing on paper.
    Any takes??

  10. Valarie on September 10, 2013 at 2:41 pm

    Morellis, asking for exclusivity on a 2nd date is a red flag to me. Your client may be amazing & he wants to make sure he snaps her up, BUT I would go very slowly with a guy like this. She has tons of options & she should explore them & make sure this guy is what she is looking for – impossible to tell on a second date.

    If a girl accepts exclusivity so soon it could signal to the guy that she is insecure & has low self-esteem. A siren would lean back & basically say, show me who you are first and if I feel you are good enough then I will consider exclusivity. Until then, she can keep him in her rotation & circular date.

    A siren doesn’t need to rush. She moves slowly, taking everything in, exploring, experiencing.

    When it feels right to be with one man only she will know.

  11. Jen Strachan on September 20, 2013 at 4:51 pm

    Hey Morellis, I am going to agree with Valerie here. In my experience as a therapist men who want that level of commitment and exclusivity so early turn out to be abusive men. Unlike the images we are taught of what the “classic” domestic violence perpetrators looks and acts like- many of them are charming beyond words, well heeled, and well employed. I would be particularly weary of this man if your client has a history of attracting abusive partners. That being said, there is always an exception to the rule. I would tell your client to as Valerie says lean back and watch how he shoes up. Keys for me- does he get very angry if she has to break a plan? is he suspicious of her male friendships? does he call more than once a day? Is he coming on like gangbusters?

    If she hasn’t done the program already i would encourage her to do the Toxic Man Program if she has a history

    I am @

  12. Rori Raye on September 20, 2013 at 7:46 pm

    All – great situation with the man with the ring after 2nd date. Long ago, a client of mine (young – 29, beautiful financial advisor): 2 weeks after being very suddenly dumped by her boyfriend of 2 years (who she adored), quickly met a man online who lived in a different city, and told him she wouldn’t have sex with him until she had a ring. He produced a ring. She went with it, on my (newbie coach) advice – moved to his city, and, yes, they had a LOT to work out over a year, but got married in that year, and here they still are – many years happily married, the whole shebang, in business together….you never know.

    Valarie and Jen – the advice you’ve given here is the advice I’d give now – AND – if she likes him, I’d say take the ring! Love, Rori

  13. Rori Raye on September 20, 2013 at 7:47 pm

    In talking to my women friends who’re relationship coaches – I’ve heard a LOT of stories like that – the man knows INSTANTLY….

  14. Veronika on October 18, 2013 at 10:12 pm

    Hello! I can not open and/or download ‘Tough Love’ files on any of my devices. I feel curious – does anyone experience that?


  15. Di Povey on November 1, 2013 at 3:30 pm

    Hello Sirens,
    I am back on line after 2 weeks no Internet, huge sigh of relief! I wanted to share some information for those who are considering setting up a Conference Call account for coaching and recording sessions in an international context. I really like the one Rori has set up for us, but being in Australia I still have to dial in on a US number. This is a tiny cost as I come in via the internet, but would cost much more if I had to use a phone. There is another service called (RRRCT one is, which provides local numbers for participants in other countries.
    So I can dial in on my Australian phone number for local cost, and my client can dial in on her US or UK or European local number at local cost for that country, and all be connected to the same conference. The coach accesses with the Host number, and the client with her Participant number.
    The features are not as extensive as our pod accounts, eg. different music on hold etc, and the recorded voice message not as pleasant, but thought this info might be useful for those working outside the US!
    love to all..

  16. Amanda on November 16, 2013 at 1:08 pm

    Hi Beauties!

    I would love to do an interview with one of you! Write me here or send me an email at

    [email protected]

    Love you all!


  17. Kristina on April 15, 2014 at 8:55 pm

    Hi Rori and all!

    I have just joined the 2014 class. So excited! I came across this discussion thread and I am really curious…

    Morellis, what happened with your client who got a ring offer on second date?

  18. Rori Raye on April 17, 2014 at 3:38 pm

    Kristina! Hi! Since 2013 – there hasn’t been much action here – I’ll alert the 2013 class that RRRCT 2014 has arrived and is already asking questions! Also – go ahead and find the websites, and feel free to contact any 2013 Grads you want! (Morellis happens to be one who moved, changed her life, and her website is not set up yet…) – and I can give you the complete list to email. I’ll actually cut and paste your question and email it to her personally right now! Love, Rori

  19. Tatia on April 27, 2014 at 8:57 am

    Hi Kristina. I’m just now scrolling through this section and saw your message. I’m excited as well!



  20. Natalina on April 28, 2014 at 10:13 am

    Kristina, Rori and everyone..,
    Yes! I joined the 2014 class as well, super excited to get going along- I was also wondering about contacting the other alumni from last year just to maybe get familiar with who is who and what is what. and possibly ask, is there a facebook group or any other place where everyone communes and shares/ masterminds with list building strategies?

    and also.. writing our about pages, and working through the RRRCT tips to get the ball rolling… I have been stalling around writing my story, ( I actually got married 3 years ago may 24th) and it was by using the rori’s tools… just still trying to figure out and get clarity around where to start from where I am… and if I am way too overly excited.

  21. Tatia on May 7, 2014 at 5:20 am

    Hi Natalia, Kristina, Rori, Master Coaches and class members I have not met yet 🙂

    Just feel like reaching out. Hope everyone is having a great day!

    I am working on the first two RRRCT tips. I feel glamorous. I feel lovely. I am shopping around for photographers and am doing a cleanse/detox/workout regime for the next few weeks to get ready to take some awesome photos. Also working on capturing my essence and energy in coming up domain names.

    I was starting to feel a little overwhelmed but I have since calmed down and started getting into the flow of all this. It is so much, and so exciting and I feel so beautiful in it all yet scared, lol. Yes, I’m going to be the gushy one of the class of 2014!

    Natalia – I thought about a facebook group as well. In the interim, however, how about we post and meet up here. It’s just about 8 weeks before we are in full gear with training and there is soooooooooooo much to do before then. Maybe meeting up in this central area will help condense the work and preparation process (I feel all over the place, lol). What do you think?

    Anyways, I’ve got to get moving for the day. I’m feeling good. Have a fabulous day RRRCT family!


  22. Kristina on May 29, 2014 at 3:04 pm

    Rori, Natalina, Tatia, and all, helo again!

    I just noticed all the responses. Thank you! I also feel a bit overwhelmed with all the materials and tasks but can’t get enough of Rori’s audios and videos. I was out of the country for a month but will get onto the photos, domain name and writing now.

    Quick question. I’ve listened to all the 13 audios of Love Forever. Rori, it is totally amazing how unorthodox and unpredictable your suggestions are. I knew it from other programs of course but this one made me feel so eager to learn. And not just the answers to clients’ questions but also how to “persuade” the client to actually do it. I wonder where I can hear your interview with your husband. I thought it would be around the 6th audio but I seem to be unable to find it. Thanks so much!

    Thanks you and “see” you on Monday!

  23. Tatia on June 27, 2014 at 6:40 pm

    Is anyone else as excited as I am that July is almost here??????????


  24. Jamee on June 30, 2014 at 2:53 pm

    I’m feeling good about it…having troubles getting the computer interaction going…not able to schedule…feeling my unhelpful thoughts about if I can’t have the perfect relationship now, how am I to help someone else. Rori did address this but still having doubts…

  25. Tatia on July 7, 2014 at 7:44 am

    Woooo Hooooo! Today is Day One!!! Welcome RRRCT 2014!!! 😀

  26. Kristi Ann on July 7, 2014 at 4:58 pm

    I’m So excited! However, I feel overwhelmed already. lol.

  27. Rori Raye on July 7, 2014 at 8:38 pm

    I’m just basically floored about how great all of you are. And how different – and how very much your own persons you are….What an honor to work with all of you! Love, Rori

  28. Rori Raye on July 8, 2014 at 6:39 pm

    Just a thought to help you get through the next few weeks!:

    This is what’s happening in RRRCT: What we’ll be doing over the next 20 weeks is CREATIVE. Coaching is creativity in action.

    You’ll be fitting together the puzzle pieces of the Tools and coaching elements the way a painter chooses color – and any other metaphor you can think of….

    I’m teaching you a procedural that will allow you to have a FRAMEWORK to hang the tools and processes on – so you can feel free and creative with them….

    Until you have at least the basic puzzle pieces of the 6 Elements and all the concepts and tools that hang off of them – in the bubble chart – it will seem like I’m throwing a bunch of unrelated pieces at you…

    And at a certain point – the big picture will emerge for you – and you’ll start to see how it fits together – and how YOU can CHOOSE to fit them together!

    Really, seriously fun! This is ART.

    Love, Rori

  29. Tatia on July 10, 2014 at 1:08 pm

    Rori, the little bits and pieces feel like little star-lights going off in the background of my head! Doing the homework and clinics and the Monday trainings are slowly shaping the framework you mentioned. I get it! I feel excited (still) and nervous (a little) but a good nervous. I know something fabulous is coming together in my life and new career and It feels BIG & BEAUTIFUL 😀 I’m working on getting my work done (web page too) and relaxing into it a bit more to enjoy the process moment by moment. That is my goal today.


  30. Jameella on August 21, 2014 at 7:36 pm

    Can we have a session amongst ourselves or with Rori on the Website. We would be at our computers at the time, and we could just be playing/learning about what to do. Steve could be with us as well.

  31. Poppy on August 23, 2014 at 9:41 am

    Hi Jameella,
    I’ll sit down with you if you have basic website questions. I hope someone else could join and move me/us through setting up those extras ( newsletter, po-ups, designing the widget that announces freebies, etc) I feel totally proud that I figured out how to set up the subscribers box. Haha!

  32. Rori Raye on August 26, 2014 at 10:00 am

    Poppy – you set up the subscriber box? What did you do/use, etc…I will go through all of that, answer all of your questions, go through it on computer with you next week – autoresponders, broadcasts, different systems, etc!….both on Monday and privately with all of you – and the Teachers will help, also…

  33. Catie on September 1, 2014 at 10:53 am

    I feel impressed that you figured that out by yourself, Poppy! I feel quite stuck on the website tech stuff and am looking forward to the class today! I’m hoping it will help. I also see the facebook page someone set up! I feel excited to connect with everyone there as well!

  34. Natalina on September 4, 2014 at 9:13 am

    Hey For Everyone wanting to Connect on Facebook Shauna set up a group here:

    so far there are 9 of us there, sharing resources and chatting, I tried to send out an email, but I don’t think that everyone got it.

  35. Catie on September 8, 2014 at 11:05 am


    I feel really stuck on some website issues, and I know there are some other lovely ladies who are also feeling stuck. I have figured out some things and can help, and I could really use some help on other things!

    Would anyone be willing to help me and other ladies with hybrid connect, email, and appointment setup?



  36. Poppy on September 14, 2014 at 9:50 am

    Catie, I am glad you got this figured out! It looks great!

    Thanks Natalina!

  37. Catie on September 15, 2014 at 1:37 pm

    Thanks, Poppy! 🙂

  38. Catie on September 15, 2014 at 6:16 pm

    Ok ladies, let’s set up a call for whoever needs help with this website tech stuff…

    I can be available tomorrow or another day this week, I can host the call, I can help with what I know or walk through things as we try to figure it out.

    I need help setting up payments.

    Does anyone check this board regularly?

  39. Poppy on September 16, 2014 at 10:01 am

    that sounds great! Thanks for taking the initiative!

    Also, Yesterday on the call I am not sure if I mentioned that Natalina is the one who got the vCita set-up going. She instructed me in the first place. Thank you Natalina!! 🙂

  40. Jameella Nuur on September 16, 2014 at 3:24 pm

    Hi! Beautiful Ladies –

    I would love to join in on a call where we share our technical know-how. I can often take a break during the day…I have an in with my boss (:-). Let me know what times work for you…Tuesdays and Thursdays as well as Monday’s around 5:30 ET often work for me.


  41. Natalina on September 29, 2014 at 12:18 pm

    wow, I totally missed your post Catie- It is not as regularly checked, because I never know when anyone posts here 🙁

  42. Jamee on October 14, 2014 at 4:14 pm

    I would love to have another call among ourselves to go over techy stuff. I didn’t know about the first call. I would like to do an exchange of recorded interviews. I have a free conference call #. My funnel is still not working, but I do get messages about people who want to subscribe to my newsletter…now maybe all I need to do is to create some – but that might be too optimistic, because I’m not sure they would actually get one, if I had some (:-)

    Oh! Well – it is back to writing autoresponders like Rori said to do, when you get frustrated, write (:-)

    OK – Natalina, how do you get those cute faces to appear in your messages, for that matter how do you get any faces, pictures to appear. Do you have to do it with your Iphone?

    Natalina – you are really special, as all of you are, how great is this – we’ve all acquired new great sisters…

  43. Roni on July 10, 2016 at 10:11 pm

    testing…it’s been awhile since anyone has been here…123…

  44. Rori Raye on July 29, 2016 at 6:58 pm

    Hi! I’m here! Yes – not used to seeing anyone here – There’s a closed FB group that Heather Allison runs – RRRCT sisterhood….I’ll ask her if she’ll invite you all in…

    And I’ll keep track of this if you’d like to use this discussion place – Love, Rori