Reinvent your relationship is about “do-overs…”
,,,and how you can change the result of what seems like a ‘bad” moment with a man into something deep and wonderful…
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If you have wanted to reinvent your entire life – your love life, your man, your relationship, everything, and you would just like to have a fresh start, this series is for you.
This is where we reinvent your relationship, reinvent your love life.
There are lots of components.
The two I’m going to focus on in the future are a couple of A’s: agility and awakeness.
So, just keep those words in the back of your mind, but today, I want to talk about what the heck reinvention is for you.
If you can reinvent, redo, recreate, what does that mean?
It means you invented it in the first place, right?
You created it.
It’s yours, you own it.
You own the good parts.
You own the parts you don’t like so much.
You had that power: to create your story.
So, if you were able to do that, of course you can reinvent it!
Every moment, it’s your option to have a new invention.
See if that makes you feel lighter.
Really, it’s possible.
You may feel mired in a situation because of a choice you made with a man a long time ago.
Maybe you’re just feeling conflicted and confused; it feels good and it feels bad.
Maybe there’s an emptiness there.
You haven’t connected.
Well, you can reinvent the way that this reality was created, step by step, because it didn’t just happen all at once.
You had an idea and it manifested.
I call that feminine festing, and I don’t really focus on it, because the whole concept of manifesting something is masculine.
I would rather say, you, step by step, got yourself into it through your organic sirening.
You walked into something because of many tiny choices.
You created something around you.
You drew in people and things and experiences.
And guess what?
We’re not successful puppeteers.
We’re not successful puppetmasters, as much as we would like to be.
You could not control the other people and circumstances and situations in your life.
You do not have to own the actions of others.
We can talk about the universal context, how we’re all connected to each other, but, still, you’re not in charge of other people.
There are so many pieces to this puzzle.
Reinvention is not reinventing other people.
It’s reinventing the way we choose, the way we make decisions, where we go, whether we’re pulling are pushing on the powers that be.
We invent what we are radiating ourselves.
Are we radiating an invitation?
Who are we inviting?
Reinventing who you invite into your life, that’s a big key.
That involves agility, which is the ability to move, to shift, to change your ideas, to allow things to pass through and let go of old concepts that aren’t working for you.
Awakeness is about being here, being aware of what you’re thinking and what you’re feeling and what’s actually going on rather than getting into your masculine head.
So, look out for the next steps and specifics.
I look forward to seeing you and helping you reinvent.