Yet – I can hear in their frustration and anger that they still love and WANT these men.
The thing is – men are easily intimidated.
And not by what we THINK they’re intimidated by…
It has nothing to do with what we normally think of as “power” – such as huge success in the world.
It’s the “vibe” they pick up on from us.
A reasonably healthy man wants to be loved and appreciated, and if what he feels from us is anger, disgust, disappointment, blame, judgment of any kind – he’ll pull away.
It doesn’t matter if we’re “right” – in fact, it just makes it all worse for him.
So – if we want a man, and we want him to feel good and so step up and give US everything we want, we have to literally “change our tune.”
This, again, has nothing to do with reducing the glow of our power.
I consider myself a powerful woman, and I’ve learned to speak “plainly” over these last 20 years – yet, I want to make my husband feel as good as I want him to make ME feel.
Therefore, It does none of us any good to “rail” against a man or anyone else.
If this is mostly what we feel ourselves doing, and want to do, then that’s why everyone tells us to leave – including him!
And yet, we don’t WANT to leave.
There’s another way. I call it “The Third Way” – and I teach my coaches how to coach you through it.
So – in my world, if you don’t want to leave, the only alternative you have is to find this new, Modern Siren way of being and speaking that will reel him in, not push him away.
He’s human. He’s him.
He doesn’t have the finesse and consciousness that you, as a woman, do.
He needs to be approached in a completely different way.
These clients were considered – by themselves (not by me…) – to be angry, mean, and actually nasty to their men in reaction to their pain, frustration and disappointment.
We turned that around.
It wasn’t deception or demureness we were going for – it was “real.”
And for these women – and perhaps for you – the real is that they WANTED their men!
So if you want to follow that line down (including, yes, Circular Dating) – then what we’re coaching on, here on Siren Island, is step-by-step making those shifts inside of US, before we give up on HIM.
It’s a challenge to give you complete coaching on the Island for $29/month, and yet, it’s a challenge I accept and look forward to…
Your coaches and I will teach you every step my clients have taken to get what they want – and it’s an entire turnaround of everything you’ve done before, think, and instinctively do.
BRAVA to US!