Why You’re Already Ready For Love – Video!

The whole thing about “being prepared” and “working on yourself” and “being ready for love” are just not helpful. Yes, it helps to have “skills.” Yet – it’s not all “black-and-white!” Knowing how to find your feelings inside yourself, how to track and give a name to each of your sensations as you feel them,…

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How To NOT Walk On Eggshells With Him!

Being “nice” isn’t the same as being “you… …and you can STILL be “nice” – just in this REAL way… Here’s a situation close to my heart that I haven’t really talked about much before…this letter states the problem exactly, and I’d love to get a dialogue going around it on the blog… “Hi Rori,…

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Why “No” Is So Attractive To Him…

Saying “Yes” is extraordinarily sexy to a man. And sometimes it’s not. Not even close. A man, though we hardly ever believe he’s that “smart,” can TELL when we’re “just saying ‘yes.’” In other words – when we’re lying. We think we’re just being “nice.” We think we’re being a good “girlfriend” or “wife” or…

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