If You’re Feeling Wimpy in Love…How Can This Be?

It always amazes me – yet, every single woman who comes to me, and who I work with as a client, is smart, talented, and accomplished. Many of these woman are very “high-profile” – actually on-stage and public, often beautiful – and yet do not value themselves at all. They still find themselves “crawling on…

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Come Out From Hiding So He Can See You This Way…

Hi, this is Rori, and when I was a girl I TRIED to blend into the walls, the furniture, the rug, the curtains. I WANTED to blend in. I wanted to disappear. When I was thirteen, fourteen, fifteen, sixteen – all the parties were beginning and continuing, birthdays, religious celebrations, sweet sixteen, class parties, summer…

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Intimacy — Afraid? How To Start Doing It Anyway

It’s possible that most of us have never known true intimacy from the moment we came into the world. We’ve been labelled, taught, cajoled and prodded, been threatened by all forms of authority, told what’s true and what isn’t, and disrespected for everything from our feelings to our thoughts. Our relationships have been more about…

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How To Use Your Anger As Your Key To Love

If there’s distance between you, there’s anger. If you’re being “extra nice…” you’re angry. If you’re giving more than you’re getting…you’re angry. There are two parts to this puzzle: 1. Whether or not you can touch your anger and how you feel when you do, and… 2. What you do with what you feel. Let’s…

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